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Dana
The Practice of Giving
Selected essays edited by
Bhikkhu Bodhi
Generosity: The Inward
Dimension
By Nina Van Gorkom
As from a heap of flowers many a garland is made, even so many
good deeds should be done by one born a mortal.
Dhammapada, 53
The giving away of useful or pleasant things is an act of
generosity. However, if we only pay attention to the outward
deeds we do not know whether or not we are being sincerely
generous. We should learn more about the mind, which motivates
our deeds. True generosity is difficult. While we are giving,
our thoughts may not all be good and noble. Our motives for
giving may not all be pure. We may give with selfish motives --
expecting something in return, hoping to be liked by the
receiver or our gift, wanting to be known as a generous person.
We may notice that there are different thoughts at different
moments, some truly generous, and others having different
motives.
The Buddha taught that there is no lasting mind or soul, which
undergoes different experiences. Our experiences themselves are
different moments of consciousness, which arise one at a time
and then fall away immediately. Each moment of consciousness
that arises and falls away is succeeded by the next moment of
consciousness. Our life is thus a series of moments of
consciousness arising in succession. Gradually we can learn to
distinguish different types of consciousness. There is
consciousness, which is unwholesome or unskillful, and there is
consciousness, which is wholesome or skillful, and besides these
there are other types of consciousness, which are neither
wholesome nor unwholesome. Only one type of consciousness occurs
at a time, but each type is accompanied by several mental
factors. Unwholesome
types of consciousness are accompanied by unwholesome mental
factors, such as attachment, stinginess, jealousy, or aversion.
Wholesome types of consciousness are accompanied by beautiful
mental factors, such as generosity, kindness, or compassion.
Three of the unwholesome mental factors are "roots of evil."[6]
These are the strong foundation of unwholesome types of
consciousness: attachment or greed, aversion or anger, and
ignorance.
Each of these unwholesome factors has many shades and degrees.
We may know that there is attachment when we are greedy for food
or desire to acquire someone else's property. However, we may
not realize that there is also attachment when we enjoy natural
scenery or beautiful music. In society attachment of a subtle
kind is considered good, provided we do not harm others. The
unwholesome has a wider range than what we call in conventional
language "immoral." It can include states that are weaker than
the immoral. We cannot force ourselves not to like beautiful
things; there are conditions for the arising of attachment. But
we can learn to know the difference between the moments which
are wholesome and the moments which are unwholesome. A degree of
selfishness persists even in moments of subtle attachment. These
are different from selfless moments of consciousness accompanied
by generosity, when we do not think of our own enjoyment. There
is attachment time and again, when we stand up, move around,
reach for things, eat, or go to sleep. We think of ourselves and
want to acquire pleasant things for ourselves. We
expect other people to be nice to us, and this is also a form of
attachment.
We may wonder whether attachment to relatives is wholesome.
Attachment to relatives is not wholesome; it is different from
pure loving-kindness, which is wholesome. When we cling to the
pleasant feeling we derive from the company of relatives or dear
friends, there is attachment. When we are genuinely concerned
for someone else we do not think of ourselves, and then there is
wholesome consciousness. We are so used to living with
attachment that we may have never considered the difference
between the moments of attachment and the moments of unselfish
love. The different types of consciousness succeed one another
so rapidly that so long as we have not developed understanding
of them, we do not notice that they have changed.
The unwholesome root of aversion also has many degrees. It can
manifest as slight uneasiness or as coarse anger or hate.
Aversion does not arise at the time as attachment. When there is
attachment consciousness likes the object that is experienced
and when there is aversion consciousness dislikes the object.
Attachment arises with certain types of consciousness, not with
all types, and so does aversion. Ignorance is an unwholesome
root that arises with all types of unwholesome consciousness. It
is the root of all evil. Ignorance does not know what is
wholesome and what is unwholesome, it does not know anything
about what is real. Whenever there is attachment or aversion, at
the same time there is also ignorance.
The three beautiful roots are: non-attachment or generosity,
non-aversion or kindness, and understanding or wisdom. Each type
of wholesome consciousness is rooted in non-attachment and
non-aversion, and it may be rooted in understanding as well.
Each of these beautiful roots has many degrees. Without the
assistance of non-attachment and non-aversion wholesome
consciousness could not arise motivating acts of generosity.
Attachment cannot exist at the same time as generosity. When one
is truly generous one gives impartially and does not restrict
one's generosity to people one likes or to the members of one's
family. The purpose of all kinds of wholesomeness should be to
eliminate defilements, to get rid of selfishness. The Buddha
taught the wisdom that can eradicate the clinging to the idea of
self, but if one
does not learn to get rid of stinginess and clings to one's
possessions, one cannot give up the clinging to self.
When we see that true generosity is beneficial and that
selfishness and stinginess are harmful, we would like to have
more moments of generosity. However, in spite of our wishes, we
notice that unwholesome types of consciousness often arise. Then
we are disappointed with ourselves. We should acquire
understanding of what conditions the arising of unwholesome
consciousness. We must have been full of attachment, aversion
and ignorance in the past, even in past lives. Such tendencies
have become deeply rooted; they have been accumulated. What is
past has gone already, but the unwholesome tendencies that have
been accumulated can condition the arising of unwholesome
consciousness at the present time. We have accumulated not only
tendencies to evil but also inclinations to the wholesome. That
is why there
can also be moments of generosity and kindness at the present
time. When an unwholesome type of consciousness arises we
accumulate more unwholesomeness; when a wholesome type arises we
accumulate more wholesomeness.
The Buddha taught different ways of developing wholesomeness,
and when we learn about these ways there are already conditions
for more wholesomeness. We find opportunity for generosity not
only while we are giving but also before the actual giving, when
we try to obtain the things we intend to give, and afterwards
when we recollect our giving. When we are honest with ourselves
we can notice that before, during and after the giving,
opportunities for generosity are often spoilt by unwholesome
consciousness. We may get tired when we have to buy or prepare
the gift, and then aversion arises. While we are giving the gift
the receiver may be ungrateful and fail to respond to our gift
in the way we expected and then we may be disappointed.
However, when we have right understanding of what wholesomeness
is, we should be concerned only with developing wholesome states
of mind and not with the reactions of other people.
Wholesomeness is wholesomeness and nobody else can change the
wholesome consciousness that arises. Before we learnt about the
Buddha's teachings we did not consider generosity in this way,
we did not pay attention to the moments of consciousness.
Through the Buddha's teachings we learn about things as they
really are. After the act of giving the opportunity to recollect
our generosity with wholesome consciousness can be wasted by
unwholesome consciousness. At first we may have been generous,
but afterwards we may find that the gift was too expensive and
regret have spent our money.
The Buddha taught that there is no self that can exert power
over the different types of consciousness that arise; they arise
because of their appropriate conditions. Through his teachings
we can learn about the different types of consciousness and
about our accumulated tendencies. Thus there will be more
understanding of what is real, and this too is wholesome. When
one has accumulated the tendency to stinginess it is difficult
to be generous, but through the understanding of what the Buddha
taught inclinations can be changed.
We read in the commentary to the Subhabhojana Jataka (Stories of
the Buddha's Former Births, Jatakas, Book V, No. 535) about a
monk in the Buddha's time who practiced the utmost generosity.
He gave away his food, and if he received drink sufficient to
fill the hollow of his hand, he would, free from greed, still
give it away. But formerly he used to be so stingy that "he
would not give so much as a drop of oil on the tip of a blade of
grass." In one of his past lives, when he was named Kosiya, he
lived as a miser. One day he had a craving for rice porridge.
When his wife suggested that she would cook porridge not only
for him but also for all the inhabitants of Benares, he felt
"just as if he had been struck on the head with a stick." Then
his wife offered to cook for a single street, or only for the
attendants in his house, only for the family, only for the two
of them, but he turned down all her offers. He wanted porridge
cooked for himself alone, in the forest, so that nobody else
could see it. The Bodhisattva, who was at that time the god
Sakka, wanted to convert him and came to him with four
attendants disguised as Brahmins. One by one they approached the
miser and begged for some of his porridge. Sakka spoke the
following stanza, praising generosity (387):
From little one should little give, from moderate means
likewise,
From much give much: of giving nothing no question can arise.
This then I tell you, Kosiya, give alms of that is thine:
Eat not alone, no bliss is his that by himself shall dine,
By charity you may ascend the noble path divine.
Kosiya reluctantly offered them some porridge. Then one of the
Brahmins changed into a dog. The dog made water and a drop of it
fell on Kosiya's hand. Kosiya went to the river to wash and then
the dog made water in Kosiya's cooking pot. When Kosiya
threatened him he changed into a "blood horse" and pursued
Kosiya. Then Sakka and his attendants stood in the air and Sakka
preached to Kosiya out of compassion and warned him of an
unhappy rebirth. Kosiya came to understand the danger of
stinginess. He gave away all his possessions and became an
ascetic.
We may find it difficult to part with our possessions, but when
we die we cannot take them with us. Life is short: thus when we
have an opportunity for generosity we should use it in order to
combat selfishness. Each moment of generosity now will condition
the arising of generosity in the future.
Good deeds bring about pleasant results and bad deeds bring
unpleasant results. This is the law of kamma and its fruit, of
cause and effect. [7] A deed (kamma) can produce result in the
form of rebirth. Wholesome kamma can produce a happy rebirth and
unwholesome kamma can produce an unhappy rebirth. Besides the
human plane of existence, there are other planes, which are
happy or unhappy. Birth in the human plane or in a heavenly
plane is a happy rebirth conditioned by wholesome kamma; birth
in a hell plane, as a ghost or as an animal is an unhappy
rebirth conditioned by unwholesome kamma. Kamma can also produce
results in the form of pleasant or unpleasant sense experiences
arising in the course of life. Seeing and hearing are types of
consciousness that are results of kamma. We see and hear
pleasant or unpleasant objects according to the kamma that
produces these experiences.
Stinginess can bring about -- either in this life or in a future
life -- the very result we fear: loss of possessions. Generosity
can bring about pleasant results, such as prosperity. However,
when we perform acts of generosity we should not cling to
pleasant results; clinging is unwholesome. Kamma will produce
its appropriate result whether we think of it or not. While we
are giving we can have right understanding of kamma and its
result, without clinging. We may do good deeds with the
understanding of what wholesomeness is. As we have seen,
understanding is a beautiful root which may or may not accompany
wholesome consciousness. When understanding accompanies the
wholesome consciousness, it increases the degree of
wholesomeness. We cannot make understanding arise at will; it
arises when there are conditions for it. Learning what the
Buddha taught is a condition for greater understanding.
There are still other ways of practicing generosity, even when
we do not have things to give. The application of other people's
good deeds is also a type of generosity. When we notice that
someone else is doing a good deed we can appreciate his
wholesomeness, and we may express this with words of approval
and praise. We may be stingy not only with regard to our
possessions but also with regard to words of praise. Gradually
one can learn to be generous in appreciating the wholesomeness
of others. In Thailand I had an opportunity to learn about this
way of generosity, which I had not heard of before. I received a
book that was printed on the occasion of the birthday of Her
Majesty Queen Sirikit of Thailand. This book mentioned many of
her good works, such as promoting the teaching of Buddhism,
supporting temples, improving the standard of living of the
people in the provinces by setting up different projects for
them. When one reads this one can sincerely admire and rejoice
in the good works of Her Majesty. In Thailand I also often heard
the Thais saying, "anumodana," which means "thanks," with the
inclination of their head and clasped hands. This they do when
they respect and appreciate the wholesomeness of others, usually
on occasions of presenting food to the monks or giving books on
the Buddhist teachings. It can become a wholesome custom to
express one's appreciation on such occasions.
When we know about this way of generosity we may remember to
speak about others with wholesome consciousness. In the
development of wholesomeness one has to be farsighted. One
should realize that whatever wholesomeness or unwholesomeness
one accumulates today will produce its effects in the future,
even in future lives. One can become more adept in evaluating
the circumstances one is in and the friends one has. One will
then be able to judge whether or not one's surroundings and
friends are favorable for the development of wholesomeness. One
will know what kind of speech should be avoided, what kind of
speech cultivated. Often conversation tends to be about the bad
qualities of others or about useless matters which are not
helpful for the development of wholesomeness. Since we often
become engaged in conversation with others, we should learn how
to turn the conversation into an opportunity for wholesomeness.
Another way of generosity is the "sharing" of one's wholesome
deeds with others. This does not mean that other people can
receive the pleasant results of our good deeds. The Buddha
taught that beings are "heirs" to their deeds. We each receive
the results of the deeds we have done ourselves. Sharing
wholesomeness with others means that our good deeds can be the
condition for the arising of wholesome consciousness in others
when they rejoice in our good deeds. We can share wholesomeness
even with beings in other planes of existence, provided they are
in planes where they can receive the benefits.
The commentary to the Without the Walls Sutta[8] narrates that
King Bimbisara offered a meal to the Buddha and omitted to
dedicate his merits to other beings. Ghosts, his relatives in a
former life, had hoped for this in vain, and because they were
disappointed, in their despair they made a horrible screeching
noise throughout the night. The Buddha explained to King
Bimbisara why the ghosts had screeched. Then King Bimbisara made
another offering and uttered the dedication, "Let this be for
those relatives." The ghosts benefited from his gifts
immediately; they had wholesome states of consciousness and
their sufferings were allayed. Lotus-covered pools were
generated for them in which they could bathe and drink, and they
took on the color of gold. Heavenly food, heavenly clothing and
heavenly palaces
manifested spontaneously for their use. This story illustrates
that one can share one's good deeds with departed ones. If one's
departed relatives are not able to receive the merit, other
beings can.
It is understandable that we are sad when we lose loved ones,
but if we know how to develop what is wholesome we can find
great consolation. Instead of becoming filled with sadness and
aversion, we should dedicate our good deeds to all those who are
able to rejoice in them, then our consciousness will be
wholesome. It can become our custom to share wholesomeness with
others; we need not even specify to whom we wish to dedicate it.
It is a Buddhist custom when a meal or robes are offered to
monks to pour water over one's hands while the monks recite
words of blessings, in order to give expression to one's
intention to dedicate this deed to other beings. The water
symbolizes a river which fills the ocean, and even so a
wholesome deed is so plentiful that it can also be shared with
others.
Good deeds are usually classified as threefold: as generosity,
morality, and mental development. This threefold classification
should not be considered a rigid one. Morality, or abstinence
from evil deeds, can also be seen as an aspect of generosity, as
an act of kindness to others. When we abstain from evil deeds we
give other beings the opportunity to live in peace, free from
harm. If we want to develop generosity, we should not neglect
mental development -- the development of wholesome states of
mind. We should know when consciousness is unwholesome and when
wholesome in order to develop generosity and other good
qualities. Knowing more about one's different types of
consciousness is mental development.
The "stream-winner" is the
noble person at the first stage of enlightenment. He has
developed right understanding of the different mental and
physical phenomena that appear at the present moment and has
seen realities as they are. With the attainment of enlightenment
he experiences Nibbana, the unconditioned reality, for the first
time. At the moment of enlightenment the wrong view of self is
eradicated, and with it stinginess too is destroyed. Stinginess
can never arise again, and he thus has
perfect generosity. An ordinary person may be able to suppress
stinginess temporarily, for example, at the time of giving, but
stinginess is bound to arise again so long as its accumulated
tendency remains. The stream-winner, through right
understanding, has eradicated the tendency to stinginess and can
never be overcome by it anymore.
Learning from the Buddha's teachings how to develop
wholesomeness and to eradicate defilements is the greatest
blessing. Therefore the teaching of the Dhamma, the Buddha's
teaching, should be considered as the giving of the highest
gift. In learning what the Buddha taught and in developing
wholesomeness we correct our views about what is worthwhile
striving for and what is not, about what is real and what is
mere illusion. Before we heard about the Buddha's teachings we
may have considered the enjoyment of pleasant sense objects to
be the goal of our life. After we learn the Buddha's teachings
we may gradually come to see that selfish attachment gives
unrest of mind and that it is harmful to ourselves and others.
We may come to understand that wholesomeness is beneficial both
for ourselves and for others, that it brings peace of mind.
Our outlook on what is worthwhile in life can change. We correct
our views about reality when we understand what wholesome kamma
is and what unwholesome kamma is, when we understand that kamma
brings its appropriate result. We correct our views when we
understand that not a self but different types of consciousness,
wholesome and unwholesome, motivate our deeds, when we
understand that these types of consciousness arise because of
different conditioning factors. There are many degrees of
correcting one's views. By developing understanding of realities
the wrong view of self can be eradicated, and thereby perfect
generosity can emerge. The effect of learning the Dhamma should
be that we become less selfish and more generous, that we have
more genuine concern for other people.
May the merits of this gift
of the Dhamma
be shared by all beings! |